Friday, April 9, 2010

This Little Prayer of Mine Book Review



This Little Prayer of Mine
by Anthony DeStefano
This book was provided for review by the WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group.
Book:
This Little Prayer of Mine
Author:
Anthony DeStefano, Illustrated by Mark Elliott

Summary:
Author Anthony DeStefano’s adult books, The Prayers God Always Says Yes To and A Travel Guide to Heaven, have sold a quarter-million copies. Illustrator Mark Elliott’s cherished artwork has appeared in popular picture books and novels for young readers, including Gail Carson Levine’s ever-popular Princess Tales series.

Now, these acclaimed inspirational experts have come together to create This Little Prayer of Mine, a beautiful and alluring book designed to guide children into a very simple, real and expressive relationship with God.

Through engaging rhymes and alluring illustrations, This Little Prayer of Mine shows children—and their parents and grandparents—that complete dependence on God is what brings peace and fulfillment. It invites children to know and believe that God is always just a simple prayer away and that He longs to respond to them with a resounding, “Yes!”

This Little Prayer of Mine appeals to readers from all different faiths. Easy-reader format allows children to read alone, or with someone older, and encourages them to openly express their fears, thanks, and needs directly to God.

Author Bio:
Anthony DeStefano is the author of The Prayers God Always Says Yes To and A Travel Guide to Heaven. He has received prestigious awards from religious organizations worldwide for his efforts to advance Christian beliefs in modern culture.

Mark Elliott’s brilliant illustrations have appeared in popular picture books and novels for young readers, including Gail Carson Levine’s Princess Tales series. His acclaimed artwork delivers inspiration, wonder, and timeless beauty on every page.
MY TAKE:
WOW! This book was really great!! Kids of ALL ages would love it! Like it says in the summary....it is an easy read for children to read on their own, or if you read it to them, it is easy for them to understand. It is written in rhyme, so it is very sing songy. It has an AWESOME message too! God is always with you no matter what...no matter who you are. He is always there. Great book! I would recommend it to any one of any age!!!

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

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Sunday, April 4, 2010

Happy Easter!



Jesus' Easter

Jesus cried out, “It is finished.”

Darkness fell over the whole land. The veil in the temple was split from top to bottom. The earth shook.

“Certainly this man was innocent.”

“Woman, why are you weeping?
She turned and Jesus was standing there.

“Peace be with you.”

He showed them His hands and His side.
“Blessed are those who did not see, and believed.”

“Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that believing you may have life in His name.”

“For by grace you have been saved thru faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, that no one should boast.” Ephesians 2:8

Jesus was crucified on the very cross that He carried.
He allowed it.
He allowed it for you.
Jesus rose from the dead.
He rose for you.
Believe Today.

Saturday, April 3, 2010

From the mouths of babes....

Okay...so today was a great...highly productive day! I DID get my workout in tonight...a light Denise Austin workout...but I didn't get the elliptical in. That is okay though because I cleaned the whole house AND went on a bike ride with the kids...AND played at the park with them...so...though I didn't sweat like I do on the elliptical...it was still a workout.

In preparation for tomorrow...the house is clean...an extra table was pulled into our kitchen...I baked cookies...fudge...pudding pie...jelly jigglers (in shapes of bunnies and eggs...thanks for the free molds Super Saver!)...banana bread...and got the turkey out and thawing! In the meantime, Jeff was outside cleaning out the man shed. He pulled out 3 strollers, a high chair, a bouncer, two car seats and a few BIG toys. He said, "GET RID OF THEM!" I said, "But honey...you know what will happen if we get rid of everything." He said firmly..."NO!" Well....you all heard it hear first...unless he does something about it...it is Murphy's Law...if we get rid of everything....well...you know. Anyway...so I cleaned all of those and I will take them to Re-Runs this week. Hmmm...it just dawned on me...I wonder where the swing was? Oh well...we'll find it sometime. Maybe I gave it to someone. Who knows. Anyway....

Jeff went to take care of the horses before dinner, so the kids and I went on a bike ride to their school to play on the playground. Major LOVES to "ride" behind me, and the other three love riding too! MaKenna took a spill though thanks to all of the gravel laying around due to the snow and gravel trucks this winter....but she was fine...just scraped up a bit. At the playground Jake went into the preschool playground area that is fenced in. He said he never gets to go in there....gee...I wonder why...maybe because he isn't in preschool? He was quiet for a bit and I said, "Jake...what are you doing." He said, "Nothing...because that is what men do."

I couldn't have said it better myself baby doll..... :-)

Beating myself up.

It is a good thing that I have NO problem laughing at myself.

I just hope that I am not the only one that this has happened to. It would make me feel better if others of you did this too.

I go on my elliptical for 1/2 hour sometimes an hour if I have been "bad" that day, every night. Then...I do a workout with either Tony Horton or Denise Austin...depending on how "bad" I had been that day. One night I was working with Tony Horton...I had baked cookies that day...."bad" day. I was REALLY getting into it. We were working arms. We were doing hook/uppercuts. Yes...I am sure you guessed it...I uppercut RIGHT into my very own nose...and believe it or not...it bled. Yes....you read that right...I actually gave myself a bloody nose.

How sad is that?? Well...at least I know I can hold my own in a fight...maybe?

Friday, April 2, 2010

The Science of the Crucifixion

In honor of today, Good Friday...I thought I would post this article about the death of Jesus. Wow. Can you even imagine what he went through?? Happy Good Friday everyone! We were going to go to church tonight....but Major and I are having...um....tummy issues. :-(

My Aunt was one of the administrators at Azusa Pacific College in California until her untimely death in January of 2008. This article comes from that college.

[The following article was originally printed in the Spring 2002 issue of APU Life magazine. Tally (French '00) Flint adapted a lecture by Cahleen Shrier, Ph.D., for the publication]

Each year, Cahleen Shrier, Ph.D., professor in the Department of Biology and Chemistry, (at Azusa Pacific College) presents a special lecture ion the science of the crucifixion. She details the physiological process a typical crucified victim underwent and teaches her students to see Christ’s death on the cross with new understanding. The exact events in this scenario may not have happened in Jesus’ specific case, but the account is based on historical documentation of crucifixion procedures used during that time period. Please be aware that the following is of a realistic and graphic nature.

It is important to understand from the beginning that Jesus would have been in excellent physical condition. As a carpenter by trade, He participated in physical labor. In addition, He spent much of His ministry traveling on foot across the countryside. His stamina and strength were, most likely, very well developed. With that in mind, it is clear just how much He suffered: If this torture could break a man in such good shape, it must have been a horrific experience.
Matthew 26:36-46, Mark 14:37-42, Luke 22:39-44

After the Passover celebration, Jesus takes His disciples to Gethsemene to pray. During His anxious prayer about the events to come, Jesus sweats drops of blood. There is a rare medical condition called hemohedrosis, during which the capillary blood vessels that feed the sweat glands break down. Blood released from the vessels mixes with the sweat; therefore, the body sweats drops of blood. This condition results from mental anguish or high anxiety, a state Jesus expresses by praying “my soul is deeply grieved to the point of death” (Matthew 26:38). Hemohidrosis makes the skin tender, so Jesus’ physical condition worsens slightly.
Matthew 26:67-75, Mark 14:61-72, Luke 22:54-23:25, John 18:16-27

Traveling from Pilate to Herod and back again, Jesus walks approximately two and a half miles. He has not slept, and He has been mocked and beaten (Luke 22:63-65). In addition, His skin remains tender from the hemohedrosis. His physical condition worsens.
Matthew 27:26-32, Mark 15:15-21, Luke 23:25-26, John 19:1-28

Pilate orders Jesus to be flogged as required by Roman law before crucifixion Traditionally, the accused stood naked, and the flogging covered the area from the shoulders down to the upper legs. The whip consisted of several strips of leather. In the middle of the strips were metal balls that hit the skin, causing deep bruising. In addition, sheep bone was attached to the tips of each strip.

When the bone makes contact with Jesus’ skin, it digs into His muscles, tearing out chunks of flesh and exposing the bone beneath. The flogging leaves the skin on Jesus’ back in long ribbons. By this point, He has lost a great volume of blood which causes His blood pressure to fall and puts Him into shock. The human body attempts to remedy imbalances such as decreased blood volume, so Jesus’ thirst is His body’s natural response to His suffering (John 19:28). If He would have drank water, His blood volume would have increased.

Roman soldiers place a crown of thorns on Jesus’ head and a robe on His back (Matthew 27:28-29). The robe helps the blood clot (similar to putting a piece of tissue on a cut from shaving) to prevent Jesus from sustaining more blood loss. As they hit Jesus in the head (Matthew 27:30), the thorns from the crown push into the skin and He begins bleeding profusely. The thorns also cause damage to the nerve that supplies the face, causing intense pain down His face and neck. As they mock Him, the soldiers also belittle Jesus by spitting on Him (Matthew 27:30). They rip the robe off Jesus’ back and the bleeding starts afresh.

Jesus’ physical condition becomes critical. Due to severe blood loss without replacement, Jesus is undoubtedly in shock. As such, He is unable to carry the cross and Simon of Cyrene executes this task (Matthew 27:32).
Matthew 27:33-56, Mark 15:22-41, Luke 23:27-49, John 19:17-37

Crucifixion was invented by the Persians between 300-400 B.C. It is quite possibly the most painful death ever invented by humankind. The English language derives the word “excruciating” from crucifixion, acknowledging it as a form of slow, painful suffering.1 Its punishment was reserved for slaves, foreigners, revolutionaries, and the vilest of criminals. Victims were nailed to a cross; however, Jesus’ cross was probably not the Latin cross, but rather a Tau cross (T). The vertical piece (the stipes) remains in the ground permanently. The accused carries only the horizontal piece (the patibulum) up the hill. Atop the patibulum lies a sign (the titulus), indicating that a formal trial occurred for a violation of the law. In Jesus’ case, this reads “This is the King of the Jews” (Luke 23:38).

The accused needed to be nailed to the patibulum while lying down, so Jesus is thrown to the ground, reopening His wounds, grinding in dirt, and causing bleeding. They nail His “hands” to the patibulum. The Greek meaning of “hands” includes the wrist. It is more likely that the nails went through Jesus’ wrists. If the nails were driven into the hand, the weight of the arms would cause the nail to rip through the soft flesh.

Therefore, the upper body would not be held to the cross. If placed in the wrist, the bones in the lower portion of the hand support the weight of the arms and the body remains nailed to the cross. The huge nail (seven to nine inches long)2 damages or severs the major nerve to the hand (the median nerve) upon impact. This causes continuous agonizing pain up both of Jesus’ arms.
Once the victim is secured, the guards lift the patibulum and place it on the stipes already in the ground. As it is lifted, Jesus’ full weight pulls down on His nailed wrists and His shoulders and elbows dislocate (Psalm 22:14).3 In this position, Jesus’ arms stretch to a minimum of six inches longer than their original length.

It is highly likely that Jesus’ feet were nailed through the tops as often pictured. In this position (with the knees flexed at approximately 90 degrees),4 the weight of the body pushes down on the nails and the ankles support the weight. The nails would not rip through the soft tissue as would have occurred with the hands. Again, the nail would cause severe nerve damage (it severs the dorsal pedal artery of the foot) and acute pain.

Normally, to breathe in, the diaphragm (the large muscle that separates the chest cavity from the abdominal cavity) must move down. This enlarges the chest cavity and air automatically moves into the lungs (inhalation). To exhale, the diaphragm rises up, which compresses the air in the lungs and forces the air out (exhalation). As Jesus hangs on the cross, the weight of His body pulls down on the diaphragm and the air moves into His lungs and remains there. Jesus must push up on His nailed feet (causing more pain) to exhale.

In order to speak, air must pass over the vocal cords during exhalation. The Gospels note that Jesus spoke seven times from the cross. It is amazing that despite His pain, He pushes up to say “Forgive them” (Luke 23:34).

The difficulty surrounding exhalation leads to a slow form of suffocation. Carbon dioxide builds up in the blood, resulting in a high level of carbonic acid in the blood. The body responds instinctively, triggering the desire to breathe. At the same time, the heart beats faster to circulate available oxygen. The decreased oxygen (due to the difficulty in exhaling) causes damage to the tissues and the capillaries begin leaking watery fluid from the blood into the tissues. This results in a build-up of fluid around the heart (pericardial effusion) and lungs (pleural effusion). The collapsing lungs, failing heart, dehydration, and the inability to get sufficient oxygen to the tissues essentially suffocate the victim.5 The decreased oxygen also damages the heart itself (myocardial infarction) which leads to cardiac arrest. In severe cases of cardiac stress, the heart can even burst, a process known as cardiac rupture.6 Jesus most likely died of a heart attack.

After Jesus’ death, the soldiers break the legs of the two criminals crucified alongside Him (John 19:32), causing suffocation. Death would then occur quicker. When they came to Jesus, He was already dead so they did not break His legs (John 19:33). Instead, the soldiers pierced His side (John 19:34) to assure that He was dead. In doing this, it is reported that “blood and water came out” (John 19:34), referring to the watery fluid surrounding the heart and lungs.

While these unpleasant facts depict a brutal murder, the depth of Christ’s pain emphasizes the true extent of God’s love for His creation. Teaching the physiology of Christ’s crucifixion is a constant reminder of the magnificent demonstration of God’s love for humanity that was expressed that day in Calvary. This lesson enables me to participate in communion, the remembrance of His sacrifice, with a grateful heart. I am struck every time with the stunning realization that as a flesh and blood human, Jesus felt every ounce of this execution. What greater love than this can a man have for his friends?

1Behold, the Man. Produced and directed by Alex Metherell and Hugh Ross. 60 min. Trinity Broadcasting Network, 2000. Videocassette.2Ibid.3Ibid.4Eastman, Mark. “Agony of Love: A physician’s look at the crucifixion.” From a link on Mars Hill homepage [Internet website] – [cited 14 February 2002]. Available at www.marshill.org/agony.htm.5Ibid.6Ibid.
General Resources:Davis, C. Truman. “The Crucifixion of Jesus.” Arizona Medicine, 22, no. 3 (1965): 183-187.

Edwards, William D., et. Al. “On the Physical Death of Jesus Christ.” The Journal of the American Medical Association 255, no.11 (1986): 1455-1463.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Date with my boy....



Okay...so I am a little behind on my posts. The weather here has been WAY TO GOOD to NOT be outside....so much of my day is spent out in the beautiful world! The flowers are blooming...the grass is starting to green up again. Who could ask for more?

Anyway...last Friday night my oldest boy took me out on a "date". He hates that I call it that....he says, "Mom...it is just a mother, son outing." Okay...whatever you say Cam....but it was the best date I have had in a long time! I have been married 13 years....what can I say???

Anyway, he was so sweet. He even had Jeff go out and buy me flowers the night before and he hid them in his room...then he gave them to me before we left for dinner. He took me (I drove...he is only 11), to Applebees. He happens to really like their steaks. I must say...he is learning though. When I asked him where he wanted to go for dinner he said, "Well...where do you have coupons to?" What a good boy! Granted...I did NOT have coupons for Applebees that particular night....but that is okay. The fact that he thought about coupons and saving money does my heart good! :-) Anyway...we had a really nice dinner. Even the waitress got into it. I told him that I was going to order a salad because a real date would do that. Then the waitress said, "And she will only eat half of it." How true that is. I ate 3/4's of it...but a real date would have only eaten half!

In case you are wondering NO I AM NOT GROOMING HIM TO DATE SOON. But...I think that the sooner you can teach a boy how to treat a girl, the better. He won't date until he is 30....realistically...16.

When we left Applebee's he came over to my side of Daisy (My Denali). I thought he had lost his mind and thought he was driving. Come to find out...he was just opening the door for me!! HOW SWEET IS THAT????

We then killed some time at Barnes and Noble. Reading is BOTH of our favorite pasttimes! We just browsed books...and yes, he talked me into a Lego Star Wars book. I couldn't resist....he opened the door for me!!!! :-)

Then we went over to the theatre and he smuggled some candy in his jacket for me...like a true man. :-0

We watched "Diary of a Wimpy Kid." It was actually a pretty good movie. I did not read the books...but Cam did and he has now given them to me to read because the movie was really interesting....and Cam is going into the 6th grade (middle school), just like the "wimpy kid", and it has been awhile since I was in middle school....so I will read them...if nothing more than to remember what it was like. Or do I want to remember. Middle school years kinda suck if you ask me...at least what I currently remember about middle school. Oh well...it was a good movie nonetheless.

After the movie we came home and just did the norm. We had a great time though! It was a much needed break for me....and it was so nice to sit and talk with him about life without the interruptions of a 9 year old, 5 year old and 2 year old.

I did talk to him briefly about the newest drugs kids are using out there...but just briefly, I didn't want him to think that the date was about lecturing. I save lecturing for at home! :-) I went to a seminar recently about the new drug fad...I will have to post on that later.

Anyway....great time spent with my oldest baby!!!

Thanks Cam!!!!